I started hanging out with this girl about a month before she delivered her baby, baby daddy left when he got her pregnant and is an a**hole, we started to care for eachother while spending time with each other and ended up liking each other a lot, even though that was neither of our intentions when we started talking. So she had the baby, baby daddy is back just because she wants to be civil about the situation. She says she likes me and cares about me, but needs time to be ok with herself before she jumps into a relationship, since in the past she always needed skmekne else to be happy. So we are continuing to talk and hang out while she works on herself, I understand she is under a lot if stress, single mom working full time. I'm trying to show her I am there for her and her daughter, but it often feels like she isn't interested in me. But we still talk usually and hangout some. There will be days where she doesn't talk to me after we had a good night together the night before, sometimes I feel like she is stringing me along. Any ideas?
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If I were you I'd just sort of address the issue. telling her you understand that she is busy with motherhood and what not but that just not hearing anything from her for a few days at a time makes you feel like you are being played. explain that you kind of need a bit more, if not commitment to a relationship at least commitment to communication.
It's hard to say if you are definitely being played but you are def in a pretty hairy situation. you have to understand that even though she may say her ex is an a**hole he is still her the father of her child and for a lot of people that is a connection that is hard to break so I'd just want to be sure that connection is undoubtedly broken0