Went on an amazing date with a girl today (first date), it went perfect. We have so much in common, she loved the food, was laughing and smiling a lot, turns out I went to high school with all her friends, etc. We both had an amazing time and I know she really likes me. On the drive back she asked me a question about music (regarding a band) and my answer got her really excited and her face lit up because it was what she would have answered and she loved the band. At that point I reached over and gave her a kind of scratching gesture on her leg (I guess kind of like when girls massage a guys head, they kind of scratch/massage it lol). It was quick nothing lingering and she kept talking and didn't seem put off by it. Just want to know if you girls would think thats weird.
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I don't think you made a mistake at all. Yes, it could be a put off if you misread her interest in you, but that is clearly not the case. If I can tell that a girl is into me on a first date, I definitely try to make contact (in a respectful way) earlier than later. If she receives it well that's a good sign. If she does the same thing back to you it's even better. When she does reciprocate contact, you might want to start thinking about whether or not to go for a kiss at the end of the night. It takes practice to read girls, and it can be really awkward if you're wrong, but it sounds like you're doing just fine.1