A couple days ago I was flirting with a guy, and my guy friend got really jealous. He told me himself that he was jealous and that I broke his heart, and that he thought we were more then friends. I do like him, but I can't tell if he feels the same way. He hasn't talked about it to me in person, only through text so I'm not sure what to do. We talk and hang out all the time but he hasn't mentioned what he said. Should I ask him what he meant by that?
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He obviously likes u but is very shy and just bc ur good friends doesn't mean his signals were that strong. Ur not a mind reader and u should tell him that! Talk to him, tell him u have feelings for him and lightly apologize for hurting his feelings but u did not know where his feelings stood. If he still has feelings for u then he should reciprocate the apology for not telling u sooner he had feelings and for getting jealous. But u should definitely talk to him on a serious note that his lack of communication isn't going to work if u both pursue a commitment. U both have the opportunity to clean the slate and begin a beautiful relationship. But communication is key and honesty is what is going to keep this thing going :)
Best of luck to u both Hun