When you talk about what you are to eachother and whether it is official or not.
Should you wait a certain amount of time?
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Well it depends on where you are at. There's no rule or certain amount of dates needed as far as my knowledge goes. I think you have to take into consideration how much time has been spent together, how far things have progressed physically and how well you two have gotten to know each other before it's time for "the talk". I'd say to play it safe it's good to wait at least 2 months assuming there's been active dates going on. Reason for my estimation is just solely based on past mistakes (I have a tendency to have "the talk" too early which has lead to many disasters) and the amount of time I'd assume it will talk to know for sure if you have a connection with someone. I could be totally wrong though. As I said, many factors should be taken into consideration before deciding if it's the right time. The biggest danger is doing it too soon and I'd assume that anywhere after a 2 month period can't really be seen as too soon anymore. Especially if you see each other weekly and have been intimate.3