I met a guy last year and we talked for about a month before we went on a first date. After that, he kept rescheduling our second date until I cut him off completely. He rescheduled three times and I was tired of it.
Fast forward, 6 months later, he comes back with a heartfelt apology and told me he wanted a second shot. He begged for this second chance. I decided to give it another shot. We went on two amazing dates. He was all over me (literally), kissing me all the time, holding my hand, wrapping his arm around me shoulder, kissing me cheek, complimenting me and all. He wanted us to spend the night together but I declined. He said it was fine.
Next thing I know, he stopped answering my texts after this second date. I wished him a Happy Birthday on Friday , he never bothered responding. I'm very upset, and hurt. I feel like a fool. I want to send him a "shame on you" email but I just don't have the strength to. I'm tired and I feel used.
Will he ever regret treating me like this? I was so stupid.
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One day when he's much older he probably will. Just forget about him, move on, and commend yourself for not sleeping with him. It's a shame there's guys like this in the world, but what can you do?
Find comfort in the fact that the one right guy you'll eventually find will more than make up for every single mistake you made with the horrible guys.2