Do you think I have a chance to get a gf even though I'm ugly?
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The type of girl that wouldn't date you because of your looks isn't someone that you should even want to date.2
Do you think I have a chance to get a gf even though I'm ugly?
The first thing i always know from questions like this is you are not very secure with yourself and are obviously listening to other people far too much, see a lot of people are vain, selfish and hateful these days, the reason they might call you ugly is because they don't have the guts to act themselves, don't let them push you down dude. When the right girl comes alone she will love you for who you are, and whatever other guys say tell them to fuck right off, i have seen how guys make fun of their guy mates and bully them into trying to look like a totally buffed up pussy boy lol, believe in yourself, screw others they are never happy for anyone any more.
Ever thought that maybe it's your attitude and not your looks that is the problem? I don't think you're ugly. There are tons of guys who are uglier. However, from that one photo, I can see all the negativity on your face. You look like you have no confidence at all, and nobody, not guys nor girls, want to be with someone with a confidence level of 0.
You've got lots of input already. I got nothing else to add..
Except one thing I've read from your conversation with Janson:
about the gym thing.
Most people don't give a fuck about other people. If they do, they're assholes. I used to feel like that too before I joined a gym. But turns out nobody cared about me, I was invisible. If during this 1 month of gym you felt like people were staring, move to another gym. There are tons of options. Or go biking instead. Or just walk around for at least 30 minutes a day.
And remember! You felt like people were staring and judging you because you're so insecure. I also have that in my insecure days, it's like everyone is suddenly judging me, when in fact they couldn't care about me. Sometimes we're just too self-conscious.
Look, if you're not being a douche or doing anything wrong to anyone, don't give a shit about what other people are doing. So they want to stare? Stare back at them! It would be a good practice of self-confidence too! Don't have the "loser" mentality, that's what's going to drive girls away. Notice the guys who get all the girls? It's because they are confident and actually looks like fun!
Is it possible to get a gf even though I'm ugly?
Depends on what kind of gf you want. Likely despite you thinking you're ugly you want an attractive gf one particularly who overlooks your lacking physical attractiveness for your personality, your hypocrisy of not overlooking her looks, and your biased self-serving judgement of labeling gals as shallow and vain for not wanting to date guys they find ugly when you seemingly won't consider gals you find ugly.
If you have worthwhile personality, status, or wealth you can appeal to a lot of attractive gals that will think it compensates for the lacking looks, hypocrisy, and biased self-serving judgement.
"Beauty is in the eye of the beholder."
I have been told by many that I am ugly, but I have also been told I am people.
People will tear you apart, commenting on different parts of your body and what they believe to be flawed like it's a dog show. Never let it get to you. You are handsome to plenty of people. You are not ugly, no one is ugly.
WOMEN NEED LOVE. ONCE YOU GIVE US THE ATTENTION AND LOVE AND CARE. WE DONT GIVE A SHIT ON ANYTHING ELSE :)
I think that you have to look around... beauty is in the eye of the beholder. If you ask a beautiful girl what she wants most in a guy most are going to have very different answers depending on where the are in their lives. So at your age you might find women that are "deeper" and are looking for a good match personalities must meld and being funny, sincere, and attentive, not stalker or snarky will get you far with a lot of girls no matter how you look. Example, David Spade, Adam Sandler both of them have had thier share of beautiful women.. good luck
You are never going to get a girlfriend with that negative attitude and low self-esteem! Give yourself more credit.
Yeah you could, but she won't be every man's dream, maybe only yours (if even that). But when two ugly people get together they don't consider each other ugly, successful attraction would be pretty screwed if everyone held the same standards. I was told once if even the impossible is possible doesn't that in itself out the idea of impossible?
Dont listen to what everyone says. Sure you're not going to be an underwear model anytime soon, but you are not ugly (although i dont know your personality) you dont have to look for "an ugly girl." Just because there are plenty of women who only care about looks, doesn't mean that all women do. There are plenty of women, like myself, that put character way beyond looks. Maybe you just aren't looking in the, right places?
You are teddy bear cute and some girls like that.
Well with that kind of confidence, you may not even get the ugly girls honestly. if you think you are unattractive, there are things most people can do to change that, through style, better hygiene and working out. Girls tend to be more forgiving on looks if you can make it up in other areas
If you think you're ugly, people are going to see that. If you carry your self tall and proud of who you are physically, mentally and spiritually, then it will radiate and attract others. I've seen plenty of "how the heck did he!" relationships and once I get to know the guy I'm like, oooh, this dude is actually pretty damn cool and confident. He knows he's not the most attractive person but it doesn't phase him because he has so much to offer in other ways. Looks are extremely important, people can tell the difference of a man being complacent or accepting.
If you work out, have a decent job, warm personality, you can easily get a healthy 6 or 7, which is far from ugly. I checked you photo, you most probably need a eye check. This is Ugly https://fbcdn-sphotos-b-a. akamaihd. net/hphotos-ak-ash4/t1/5808_150300793635_4094296_n. jpg and that is ugly us.123rf.com/.../...-with-red-interesting-face.jpg He/She/it is ugly assets.vice.com/.../...d351a8afbdb26e8de1ea9da.jpg the Ugllylogy http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ugly , it's for 3-rd graders man. I don't want to teach someone your age things, but there is difference between "ugly" and "unattractive" (physical). Thinking you are ugly, accepting it is a very bad thing VERY. It means you are emotionally wounded, very deep. Get over this first then try physical workout. I would recommend the book (you can find it on torrent, and YouTube as audiobook) "the Psycho Cubernetics".
Sure you can.
I saw a bum standing on a busy street with a sign seeking donations and a woman with a big butt with a beer. The guy was a dirty bum, some women in a nice car opened the door and he got in.
The only reason you don't have a woman is you are thinking wrong. Some guys need a sign, bow or lollypop. Pick one.
Find a girl who is ugly, problem solved.
Yes. You'll just have to work A LOT harder and keep trying no matter how many rejections you face. It's a numbers game. Try enough times and you will succeed. The real question though: is it worth it?
i used to think the same thing bro, i know where your coming from. I actually had to search out of my state to find someone, im from NC and my soon to be wife is from NY. im a southern boy and she's an NY Italian. I wouldn't listen to what other people say, people are mean. You go and have fun and just see where life takes you. as the Italians would say "and if you dont like it, "SCRATCH YA ASS"
Who you are and what you do are equally, if not more, important than looks. I say go put yourself out there, figure yourself out, and get confident. It isn't easy, but it can be worth the struggle.
Im sure its tougher but there is definetely someone out there for you. Keep your head up!
depends where you live.
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