so, i've liked this girl for about 2 or 3 years (i'm a guy) anyway just before Christmas , i asked her out and she said no, because she went out with my friend.. This will sound kinda creepy but i keep looking at her Twitter, i don't mean to, but i can't help myself.. :/.. Anyway, recently there was an open mic night for teens and we both performed, and when i performed she started crying.. i checked her Twitter and it said stuff like "i wanted to play do i wanna know by AM but it would be too obvious" and "maybe i just wanna be yours".. My questions are, is it me she is talking about, and if so, how can i ask her out without her knowing (and how can i stop myself from looking at her Twitter?) *sorry for long question*
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I had to read the lyrics. Well kind of strong and there might be a link to you. But she went out with someone else before Christmas . Maybe the song you played had strong lyrics that made her think about the other guy. It's a tricky situation. What song did you perform? what's her situation with your friend. Ask him what happened.
But seeing your question is like i'm re-living my situation with this girl. She first rejected me. Then when i started to ignore her and mind my own business things changed. She was taking to Facebook to post songs and quotes. Every single real life thing between us usually translated in songs on her Facebook .
So she might hint at you. Problem is: why isn't she doing something more direct? Is she really serious trying to grab your attention by saying stuff on Twitter? That's what pissed me off about the girl i liked. She kept doing that instead of trying to tell me face to face or in a more direct manner.
Anyway.. Let's be gentlemans and see things from her point of view. Maybe her rejecting you wasn't was she wanted. It happens, she might have freaked out when you asked her before Christmas . Or maybe she had a change of heart. SHE REJECTED YOU so in that brain of hers, she will look like a fool if she comes back to you. She thinks you got over and you might laugh and mock her. SO i guarantee she will never come back to you and confess. All she will do is: post on Twitter. It's safe for her. You'll have to go after her.
I have no details about things that made you think she's interested...
Do you have Twitter? Do you have her as a friend? You should post a song "James Morrison - up" would be good for your situation. This way (if her posts on Twitter were about you), she'll know you might still think about her.
Another choice is: you could simply take a bigger risk and tell her that your invitation to hang out is still valid.2
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