For example- at a party, a guy and I danced together and I later talked to him about it. I was talking to him about how he was a good dancer and how he was really attractive. He told me that I had a nice 'behind' and I pointed out the fact that he touched it when we hugged. I told him it didn't bother me at all and that it felt good. He asked me if it was okay with him to do touching and I told him i wouldn't stop it from happening. Does this turn on guys? I'm very curious. What else should I say to him?
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Yes most guys will find it an attractive or appealing thing when a girl tells him what they want him to do (unless its housework) or when they initiate or 'further' intamacy eg, taking his hand and putting it where they want to be touched.
however you do realize you didn't tell him what you want, you only pointed out something he already did, and then gave him permission to do more at his request :)
but yeah sometimes if you are finding it difficult to voice things specifically, the showing thing works good.0