a guy friend of mine invited me as his "plus one" to his brother's wedding and i accepted. i have been dating a guy, but his Facebook said single and things were/are in a grey area between us, so i thought it would be ok to accept the invitation.
i ended up feeling like it wouldn't be right of me to go to the wedding without running it by the guy i'm dating first, out of respect to him... even though were not boyfriend/girlfriend.
at first he said he was fine with it, but after he thought about it he said that he didn't want to be controlling and i can do what i want but if things progress between us in three weeks (when the wedding is) he definitely wouldn't be ok with it.
now i have to tell my guy friend i cannot make it to the wedding, but i dont know how... i'm also a little apprehensive to say no just yet because in my gut i wonder if i will still be with the guy i'm dating (i WANT to be with him, but when he said "IF things continue to progress between us" it kinda made it sound like he's not fully invested.
how do i handle this?
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Wow really? Your boyfriend sounds like he needs to chill out a little bit. And the fact that he doesn't even sound certain if the two of you are going to last for another few weeks doesn't sound very promising. Did he even say why he wouldn't be okay with you going to the wedding with your friend? Why would it not be okay in three weeks' time? Honestly you should just go to the wedding, go and have some fun, he can deal with it, it's a harmless thing...0