To make a long story short, had quite the fall out with a girl due to a fight. I'm not sure if she views me as creepy, or someone she wants to beat up LOL. (me and here are both "Talking"... you know the preliminary before exclusive dating. so she DOES like me, even said so herself)
Anyway she stopped talking to me and i felt weird not talking to her since my day pretty much revolved around talking to her, so i hit her up, caused a bit more problems, but now she's MUCH more calm and has forgiven me a bit.
Anyway she hinted at the idea of "maybe we can be friends one day" and im like "sure, ill hit you up in a month or two ok?" and she replied back "sure"
I also texted her "maybe we can pick back up us dating in the future..." and then i texted again "bye :)" and i got no replies.
My questions are:
1: is it good she didn't reply and reject me? she's not the type to lead someone one and she's usually up front with people. i'd THINK she would say something like "ill never date you" lol
2: should I wait a whole month before popping the question of "So... can we forget the past and try dating again?"
should i wait just a week and then say "so... do you think you could look past our fights and give dating a shot in the future?"
i'm not sure which to do, because i dont wanna waste a whole month or 2 thinking about her only to get shot down.
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and besides, what else is she supposed to say? "maybe we can date again one day?" that sounds odd. Being called a friend =/ Friend Zone