Met a guy, we hooked up and it was terrible. A day later I texts him: "So that was kind of a disaster?"
What would you have said to that? I was joking and hoping he would agree, jokingly. Did I hurt his feelings/misread it?
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You either hurt his feelings...
... he completely agrees with your assessment, and has decided that he doesn't want to pursue more disastrous hookups with you.2