Met a guy a while ago, went through a rough patch with deaths in my family. Got a little clingy, said sorry explained why, and that I wasn't normally like that. Asked him to start over again. Even told him I had another guy wanting to hangout with me. He said he'd think about it, I wanted him more, and so I told the other guy I was waiting for something else, and told the one I wanted I had no other options, but I'd give him the space to think about it.
Here's my question, I gave him 100 outs, I told him I'd understand if he said no... that I only told him about the guy because I wanted him more, if he met another girl, thought I was too clingy, whatever, I'd get it, I just wanted to know if there is a shot. Does he really mean he's going to think about it? how long will this take? Will/should he contact me even if he doesn't wanna start over?
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1. you confused him with too much yadayadayada
2. now he's thinking it's too complicated &
3. too many possible pitfalls
Don't wait for a think about time that might never come.
Think of a NEW adventure, ask him out point blank, give him a deadline and tell him he the ONLY one worth doing it with0
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