I've begun volunteering with a guy the last few months. A few things have happened that make me wonder if he's interested
- during a meeting, I caught him looking at me twice across the table, when the speaker was sitting near him on the opposite side from me
- during a smaller meeting in a more public area, I was in an in depth conversation with 2 others and he walked by and greeted me, then we chatted very briefly
- otherwise, he is generally friendly and we've talked a little beyond the volunteering that we share in common
- from what I know, he isn't seeing anyone but I'd probably want to confirm that by asking a mutual friend
Just wondering if I should go for it and ask him if he'd like to go for coffee?
One friend gave me advice to play hard to get, etc... not sure about that!
What do you think?
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I think there's a really good chance he's interested in you, too. Don't play games like "hard to get," 'cause that drives guys crazy (in the wrong way). Even though there are guys who wouldn't admit it, we LIKE it when a girl makes the first move and does something like ask us to go for coffee.0