So my friends with benefits guy and I was talking earlier & he said 'well sorta going out with a mate...' We was talking about where he was going for drinks. I think he might be going on a date, thing is he's always said before 'oh I'm going on a date' he will always come back & tell me that they never worked out blah blah. It's never bothered me before until today and I don't know if it's because he's not being honest with me, what can I do? I know it really shouldn't bother me at all and I'm annoyed with myself.
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i think you're developing feelings for him. it's no big deal really but most people that are friends with benefits end up with someone falling for the other. if it isn't mutual then complications arise and you'd end up feeling awkward next to each other. trust me i know what i'm saying.
i say talk to him about it. if he doesn't feel the same way or is scared of commitment get out while u still can and when the feelings aren't that deep. it's harsh i know and you might think i'm jumping to conclusions but 90% of the time with these things end up like this.