I've been friends with this girl for 3 years now and specially this last year we have become really good friends.. We tell each other a lot of stuff (keep some things private) .. I went over to hers a few times to watch a movie and the 3rd time which was yesterday I made a move because it felt like she wanted to kiss me asweell.. But she rejected it
It hasn't made it awks but I don't really know what to do.. ignore her? Keep trying?
Is this normal to fall for your best friend?
Im a boy and my bet friends is a girl by the way
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As a girl with a lot of guy friends that at one point or another had feelings for me, Don't take it personally that she rejected you... as cliche as that sounds!! I would let it simmer honestly and not make it awkward or ignore her. If you want to bring it up just to clarify or tell her you misread her that's totally cool I'm sure she would not be weird about it. A lot of times, even if you're her type or she thinks you're cute it's still too weird because of the friend aspect... If y'all are super close, sometimes it's like your brother lol!! Sounds crazy but it's true!! I've totally said those words "Yeah I would totally date him, but it's just weird because we're besties!"
Wait a couple months and just be friends and see if she sends out any signals... sometimes after you have a chance to think about it, you regret not going for it and worry that you won't get another shot... so just be cool act like its nothing and later if you still are feeling her or you think she's feeling you... just try again, but it you are super relentless she'll feel bad and might quit hanging out as much.0