Is it normal for the guy to bing up the gf bf labeling issue. Ie. Make the relationship official? It is it the girls responsibility?
How many months into the relationship do guys feel ready?
- Guy does itVote A
- Girl does itVote B
- Don't label itVote C
- OtherVote D
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Neither gender is 'responsible' for making the relationship official. Usually it just comes up in conversation or one just introduces the other as their boyfriend/girlfriend.
As for how long it takes, it depends completely on the couple. It could take a few dates, a few days, a few weeks, a few months, a year, etc. It just depends when the couple decide to become monogamous.
For me, I would have to be able to completely trust the girl and really fall for her in order to make it official. I most likely won't just make her my girlfriend after a few dates.0