Lately things have gone downhill.. I've come to conclusion that i should never date anyone. Why? well because im so use to being alone all the time, and being "me" and feeling "empty", the moment i date someone i get so attached and it gets hard to go back to being "me".
I've dated a guy who doesn't even live in my town, and we had 5 amazing great dates, and suddently it seems like he hasn't been so into me, i get crazy and analyze, even though he told me things are a bit hectic now and he has a lot going on, this month all he has done is traveled to different countries and towns for conferences and he goes to university and also is very politically engaged so he traveles a lot . But i feel like i need attention and i get needy and clingy but i havnt been needy and clingy towards him, but towards myself, i beat myself down thinking im not good enough for him and why would he even care to date me when he can chose so many others. On our last date he told me he liked me but he hasn't contacted me a lot lately..
i hate dating
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Dating is the greatest and most frustrating at the same time. It sound to me going by the info here that he is into you. I know with myself, when I'm busy I start getting stressed and I'm just not in the mood to talk. It has nothing to do with not being very interested in someone I'm dating, I'm just stressed. Also when I'm stressed I get short and quiet when I do talk to her, not intentionally of course.0
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