I've never had trouble making friends but I just can't keep them. I'm so introverted and socializing is very hard for me, I also have social anxiety but to be honest I can talk to people fine without them knowing.
I'm always complimented on being so pleasant and nice, so that I hope explains my personality.
In past relationships I seem to do well with being friends with the girlfriends of guys whom are friends with my guy.
I would just hope a guy dating me doesn't think, "oh she doesn't have friends or do much so that means I get to go out without her all the time!" (That is what my ex husband used to do... And it was very painful to be left behind when I very much wanted to join as I'd be with him).
I do tend to like to stay in, even in a relationship, but the occasional outing with friends together is nice. Maybe less than once a month.
Otherwise, I love going out places with my significant other, just us. I don't feel we need to stay in and not leave the house, I actually find I go out and do more things if I'm with my significant other. Is just the social situations I need very little of. More than once every month to month and a half is too much...
I am a very independent woman, but having a man in my life, he really is my partner all around and I love to do things just the two of us.
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I would date a girl with no friends, I don't really care. I'm kinda the same way. I have people I consider to be friends but I don't do much with them cuz I usually do my own thing. Sometimes friends are more of a pain than anything else lol. When I'm seeing someone, I prefer its just us. Like you I don't mind doing social things once in a while but I can live with doing them rarely.0