So frustrated-- is he interested or not?

He's really nice in person, rather shy, seems kind of into me, gauging by the warm smiles and constant eye contact. But texting is sporadic and factual, and a few times now he just hasn't responded. Is he shy, a bad texter, or not into me?


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Most Helpful Guy

  • He's going slow guesses why:
    extracting from a bad relationship
    been shot down by the looks of you before
    waiting on a long term investment in another to make up her mind
    in no hurry to give up his fleeting freedom between gals

    Only time will tell what type of comm he is
    phone
    text
    Facebook
    etc.
    They seldom convert... (sigh)

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    • I backed out of studying with him earlier in the semester (which sounded like it was going to be a study date-type) because I was truly busy and didn't know him well. Maybe that's why he's going slow? I'm shy/insecure so I might be giving some mixed signals too...

    • Agreed, now figure out his comm preference...

What Guys Said 2

  • do u meet often

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  • He sounds like he just wants you for one thing like maybe because you don't look good one day he doesn't talk to you but another day u look good he talks to u keep track of things like that

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What Girls Said 1

  • probably just a bad texter, im having the opposite problems!

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