There's thousands of articles on this topic on the internet, probably on here too, but I want to ask from a more personal point of view.
For the ladies on here, what's your best or worst experience being 'approached' by a man, in a club/bar etc - did he succeed or not, why/not?
For the gents, do you believe in the numbers game or do you even 'approach' many women successfully?
Can the 'shoe' be on the other foot 2014 or do women still prefer the more 'traditional' methods i.e. man makes the first move.
In my experience my most 'successful approaches' were merely organic and spur of the moment - no chat-up lines etc.
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The 'successful approaches' still need some 'game', but all needs to come with the place of 'giving', rather than 'taking' values from the person. If you want to approach a girl just to want to have sex with her in your whole mind by giving her compliments? What's the point? by the way it's taking values rather than giving values.
I think men should make the first move no matter what, if we still wait for the women to act, we already died in loneliness, this is my personal point of view, women really scare rejections furthermore compared to men's perspective.
This is numbers game, the more numbers you have, the higher the chances you get better with women. Perhaps you are having a good interactions with a woman, and she gives you a reason''oh..I have a boyfriend'' kind of excuse. Do pass her test, she might be testing you. So it's all about numbers game.
For my part, honestly I have never approached many women successfully but I'm working on the social states.