I know thats not much to a question but I couldnt translate it into question.
There is this sweet, quiet guy (Jim) i know who I've been crushing on for about a year now. Last January he asked my best friend (Kale) out and she said "no i am not attracted to you"
I wasn't jealous i woulda been happy for them. Kale then stoped hanging out with our small group because of sports this year. then Jim started...i guess flirting with his eyes. holding eye contact. staring at me. even making privete jokes with me.
even teasing me. which he's never done to me. I saw hope for us till Kale stept back into the picture for a teen partu and then it was as if I didn't exsist. Unless Bill (another guyfriend) wanted to talk to me. Which we talk quite a bit.
Why did he just stop talking to me.
I know Kale demands everyones attention by her personality but you would think he'd at least talk to me.
when she was in another room we we'er back to normal with like when she was at basketball but as soon as she came back and she jumped in the convo I only talked to him personally once and i asked the question. I admit i get shy around him but not that shy. Please Help!!!
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He does not deserve you.
I know all about over shadowing best friends, trust me. And this is basically an all to common situation in my life, over and over again, with different guys and different friends.They dont mean to do it, but they are just a lot more noticeable.
If he notices you only when she's not around, he's not into you. wait for the guy who only has eyes for you even if you are surrounded by a 100 kale's. you deserve no less.0