So there's this girl who messaged me on a dating site a few weeks back. She's kinda cute and she wants to have a date, but the problem is she is very hard to talk to and she lives kinda far away.
Whenever I talk to her, it feels like i'm interviewing her instead of having a conversation. Whenever I talk to her or ask questions about herself, she'll give very generic, one-word responses. I'll ask her how her weekend is and she'll just say boring or when I ask her what she's up to, she'll say just watching tv. I'll say what are you watching then she'll be like just a few things.
I'm not saying I expect her to talk all the time, but it feels like I'm talking to a wall. I don't think she's a bad person but I feel like if we do meet up, it'll be boring as hell and I'll have to think about a bunch of stuff to talk about before the date which I don't like. It'll seem forced.
I'm willing to give her a chance, but I just don't feel like we connect. Has anyone ever dated someone like this? If so, did it last. Were you able to make them somewhat talkative?
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I've dated people who are quiet/reserved in general, but with me they were always chatty because we had a lot in common.
I think if conversation is stunted and doesn't flow freely, you probably just aren't connecting with one another. Personally, I wouldn't be interested, but if you want to give it a shot, go for it. Maybe she just needs to get comfortable.1
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