Let's say you have feelings for a guy, but then you put him in the friendzone because you're just not entirely sure. What's the motivation behind this? For example, are you just letting him down easy? Is it possible you're feelings might change down the road and don't want to mess things up now? Will you ever place him back in the "I want to date him" category? Just let us know how this works.
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When I'm friends with a guy I'm not attracted to, I'll put him in the friendzone. It sounds so harsh but if I'm not physically attracted to him I can't see me and him in a relationship, so friendzone it is.
When I AM attracted to him, and he obviously has a good personality otherwise I wouldn't be friends with him, I won't friendzone him. I might make him feel like he's in the friendzone, by playing hard to get, but I won't ever determine it; I would act weird about it and never give a clear answer. If he'd say "you friendzoned me didn't you" I'd say "look at the weather" but then in less obvious ways ofcourse.
The friendzone is not that bad, I think, it just means I don't like him back. But I will not let that ruin the friendship. Not again..0