When a guy or a girl leads someone on intentionally... who do you blame?

To lead someone on... you have to effectively lie to them and play with their emotions.

Do you blame the victim or the perpetrator?


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Most Helpful Girl

  • Oh the perp, definitely. If a person leads someone on intentionally and knows they're messing with that someone's feelings, they're to blame.

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    • Thanks for BA!

    • oops…I mean MH :P Old habits die hard.

What Girls Said 1

  • depends to what extent. I have been lead on before and yes it's his fault but it's my fault for not being careful and falling for it even though it seemed a bit too good

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What Guys Said 2

  • Definitely the perpetrator. It's taking advantage of the other person and not everyone is good at realizing that they're being played.

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  • I'd give it a 70/30 blame ratio.

    70 for the girl/guy being malicious and manipulative and 30 for the girl/guy being an idiot.

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