If he's nice and pleasant and friendly to you. You work with him. However another colleague was bullied by him, which caused the other colleague to leave.
Would you go out with a guy like this?
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No. If he's nice and pleasant to me but horrible to another, I obviously don't know him too well. That is a red flag to me. If he can do that to another then he will possibly start being that way with me down the line of a relationship.
I wouldn't go out with work colleagues though.
Gossip spreads like fire when that happens.2