If you have been talking to a girl for a few days how would you feel or think if this girl gave you her number without you asking and if she messaged you first a few times? Especially if you had been online earlier and didn't message her would that automatically show you don't like her?
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No. It's a great change of pace when a woman takes initiates. According to a lot of psychological research, people like those who likes, or seem to like, them. Thus, when a girl has taken the initiative, I assume that she likes me and it allows me to relax a bit. It's great. Unfortunately, due to the illogical, asinine myth to which many people subscribe—that you should make the other chase you—a lot of times the girl starts worrying that she's making too much effort and appearing desperate (even though those thoughts haven't crossed my mind) and she backs way off wanting me to chase her, which confuses me and makes me wonder if I did something that made her lose interest.
So long story short, I like it when a girl makes effort. Don't overthink it. That, overthinking it, will be what ruins it, not that your initiating.0