I would really like to have a boyfriend and it seriously makes me feel very desperate. I'm not lowering my standards, if I did, I'm sure I could find a boyfriend, but I want the right person and I can't find him anywhere but actively pursuing guys and looking for them makes me feel desperate. I have yet to find any guys to even go on a date with, but I have been looking. Should I just chill out and stop looking? Does looking for a guy make me desperate?
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It's ok to FEEL desperate but just know that it's not the end of the world. Keep pursuing guys if you want but be careful, the chances of success more often low than high. This is true for both sexes I think. Go about it in a girly way don't hit on every guy in the room. That makes you look like a player haha. Wait for one you like and then make your move feeling the waters as you go along.
That's all the advice I can think of.1