How did you overcome fear of approaching women and how did you approach? What did you say and were you able to get a number?
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Repetition. Doing it over and over again. Another thing that helped me was having a life, being involved in things like work, clubs, classes, sports, etc. If you want to execute the plan of approaching a girl without having fear of rejection or nervousness, you have to have a life and accomplishments that back you up with confidence. Don't chase women, chase a great life for yourself, women will chase you if you do. If you're a success, you'll have constant reassurance of confidence in yourself and your abilities. If you don't have a whole lot of success then start small. Something as small has having a schedule and sticking to it without fail will give you positive reinforcement that you're a success. If you write down things or goals to accomplish in a day, a week, or a month, or even years and you accomplish them, it'll make you so much more confident. So honestly if you want to overcome the fear of approaching women, you have to focus on your goals, commitments, liabilities, and whatever it is that makes you love your life and successful. Just write stuff down and do them. Take charge, you'll feel like a man and as if you are limitless.. that nothing can stand in your way. Tackle the small things in life and you'll surely tackle the big one's. Don't sit at home and think about how you're going to approach women and get numbers... i'm telling you right now, DON'T DO THAT. I used to be that guy years ago and it only makes you worry about it more. The more you think about it, the more fear will enter your head and you'll look ridiculous when you actually approach a girl.
Just focus on yourself and make yourself pleased with your life and abilities before going out and trying to get a girl. If you do, your confidence will be vibrant and authentic "not fake confidence". Trust me, just don't even think about it, first be a success within yourself and goals, and you WILL be a success with women.1
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