I'm in the Marines and I'm about to deploy again. Me and the girl love each other to death but instead of rushing things and putting a title on what we are, we're taking things slow and letting nature run its course. She's in cosmetology school right now and has a daughter. I pray to God that she's still there when I get back but I think she's WAY too beautiful and WAY too awesome of a girl NOT to get snatched up by somebody. What should I do?
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It's hard to be in ANY branch of the service, knowing back home there is this amazing angel waiting for you, and you don't know how the outcome is going to turn out, nor if she will still be there waiting with open arms for you when you do come home.
You're doing the right thing in "not rushing things" in your relationship with her and her daughter. I always recommend to anyone here to take things slow when just starting out, especially when you are not ready to take things to the next level.
However, in your case, sweetie, you may have to----put this on speed dial just a Notch, and give Mother Nature a bit of a push.
If you're sitting there praying and saying that you hope she is still there when you get back, that she is "way too beautiful and awesome of a girl NOT to get snatched up by somebody," then it's high time, soldier, for you to do an "About face," and slap a title on your relationship and with this-----some sort of metal to her body. With this, I am referring to, perhaps a nice ring, although it doesn't have to be an engagement, or just some special piece of jewelry that symbolizes your deep love for her, making you both Official, And telling other octopuses Out there--------"Hands off, mister, this girl is mine."
You are smart enough to know that nothing in life is a guarantee but death and taxes. Why worry yourself while you are away. Of course one little piece of metal may not be the answer to save anyone's relationship, but to someone as amazing as her, it might just save the day with some sort of peace of mind, and------save your life with her as well.xx