This girl and I dated over the summer, but we broke up because she didn't like the fact that I would be an hour or two away for college. However, months later, she got with another guy and she's already moved in with him. We still talk, but I don't like how she says, "lets have a friend weekend this weekend." It makes me mad because I still have feelings, so should I tell her to not call me "friend" or just get over it?
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It's obvious she still wants You part of her life, part of her heart still, and even if she has this newbie whom she has moved in with lock, stock and barrel, shows me she wants the best of both worlds as well.
It's sort of like a triangle threesome, but in this case, you are this lonesome looker now at the top, looking down, and left to right, you see a-----twosome.
There are many couples, divorced or who were merely in a relationship, who DO remain friends till the end. And actually, they are closer than before, more amiable with one another, finding that they get along better as friends than when they were partners. But it's every man for himself, and of course, your choice. Do some soul searching.
If you do Not feel comfy cozy with your Ex and her Other half, then simply tell her "thank you, but I am busy." Or you can be honest, get it out of the way, and just tell her straight out that you would prefer Not to, that you've moved on, and the friend to the end deal is not for you. No need to go into detail about what to label you...she will get the hint with This, and to realize then, that she not only lost a boyfriend, but-----there's no chance of her hopping on board your "friend ship."