Okay, so recently I had to go into a rehab center for my anorexia and gain a lot of the weight back. Im average and It looks awkward now, but Im trying to work out as much as I am allowed to. I've recently been talking to an old high school crush/friend that I haven't seen since graduation (when I was still severely underweight) and he wants to meet up soon. How do I go about this, saying that I'm not skinny and pretty anymore? Its kind of hard to bring up...
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Hey. I'm sure he'll like you better now that you're healthier. I'm sorry, but being nothing but skin and bones (severely underweight because of an eating disorder) is not attractive to most people. Also, I'm not sure if you should meet up with him, especially if you're hoping that it'll turn into something more. It seems like you're at a stage of your life where you're better off focusing on yourself and becoming healthy again. And, you should probably go see a therapist considering that you still seem to idealize the anorectic body type which isn't healthy. I hope you get better soon.6
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