Is my boyfriend telling the truth about the escort he texted?

My boyfriend decided to go to the gym at 7pm and stop by his parents house after.I didn't think anything was really unusual. I went online to check our Verizon bill because it was higher than expected this month. Anyway, I saw that around 730 he was texting someone and I found it weird because he usually doesn't text while he's working out. I googled the number and saw it was an escort. When I confronted him, he said it was him telling her off. He had a history of using escort services before but swears that he stopped. According to him, she texted him saying that she was in town. He replied that he is not in that lifestyle anymore. And he said her replies were odd and replied with rates instead of saying okay. So he panicked and just told her off, then decided to delete the texts for fear that I might find out. He said I just wanted to bury that past because I'm ashamed of it. I didn't want it to resurface when we are married. The odd thing is, it shows he was the first to contact her. He says he has no control over that and swears up and down that she contacted him first. He seems like he's telling the truth but the evidence just shows otherwise...


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Most Helpful Guy

  • Even if a guy knows an escort well, they don't text. They make all their appointments by phone, and there are certain things they don't ever mention over the phone.

    If he was texting her, even if he had been a regular customer, it wasn't to make an appointment. She wouldn't have taken it.

    (I use a LOT of escorts, and I know their phone habits.)

    The evidence here actually supports his version of events, not your suspicions.

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    • Thanks for a helpful reply. Well the phone bill just shows he reached out to her first and he still says she texted first. I won't ever know. I asked him to pay her to get a screen shot of their conversation. He has texted and called her, left a message but no replies. He said why would she respond if I already told her off. It doesn't make sense to me. But I guess I will never know the truth.

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    • On her profile it says call or text anytime. I did text her for rates and seeing if I can make an appointment through text. Just to see if they do it over text. Who knows, I may get lucky tonight...lol...kidding.

    • Like I said, texting is ok for some escorts.

What Guys Said 5

  • Escorts have people contact them on a regular basis. If he text first she would text her rates to get him interested. Plus, If he deleted the texts, he has something to hide. If his story was true. He would have shown you the text were he said he is not into that lifestyle anymore. I could be wrong but I wouldn't be surprised if I'm not. I'd get rid personally, but that's just me.

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    • Also she could of text him if he rung her and she rung back but got no answer.

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    • No they don't block their phone. They ave numbers as ignore in their hones but it costs money to put blocks on numbers. The amount this lass is making though may make that possible but most people are solely in it for money, not sex. Sometimes they are busy with other clients so may take a while to respond.

    • Have* phones* - sorry, iPad sometimes misses letters.

  • I've never had my phone text someone first without my involvement. ESPECIALLY not someone who isn't in my contact list.

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  • Hah. This is why I don't deal with prostitutes

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  • Yes...whatever it is, he may have fucked escort. It is just a sex thing. Sometimes men enjoy having sex with different girls for a change. You may call it as sex addiction.

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  • If he's using an escort it means he would rather pay a whore than be with a cheating whore.

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What Girls Said 3

  • No bias from us. Sounds like a lie. For one, why delete texts if they're not incriminating? Second, the phone company does not lie. And for another, if he has a past with this issue it's all the more probable that he's into it again.

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    • I can agree with all but your first point. Storing text messages on a phone uses up memory, storage space, and a battery's charge. I delete texts to free these up, not to avoid incrimination. The only texts I keep are sweet things my girlfriend says to me; they are worth the loss of the above.

    • Oh yeah I do that too, but the Asker says that her boyfriend said he deleted them because she might "find out. " just seems odd

  • Well, the phone bill certainly doesn't lie. You found out that he was the one initiating the call with the escort and that's what happened. The fact that he was charged $200.00 means that he was having phone sex with her. That's her job, and that's what she does. The escort is not at fault here, your boyfriend is. You need to have a serious talk with him and straighten things out before you make the mistake of marrying him.

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  • The phone bill doesn't lie, boyfriends do. He contacted the escort first. Do you regularly check his phone bills, though? It sounds like an unstable relationship to begin with.

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    • True. And no, this would be the first real big issue. We only just recently joined our cell accounts and the bill is under my name so I checked why they charged us over 200 extra. Anyway, that's besides the point. I honestly wish I checked his phone before though but I figured if a person is going to cheat they are going to cheat. The evidence will just show itseld...and it did. But it's the evidence versus his word.

    • Not to be rude either but if he had changed his lifestyle, he should of changed his phone number before getting a girlfriend. Knowing escorts could contact him still.

    • Good luck anyway x

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