Have you noticed how MOST young attractive women that have boyfriends have boyfriends that are not good guys?
Why is that MOST (not all) young attractive women that have boyfriends have boyfriends that are cocky, stuck up, or a player, etc?
What Girls Said 3
Do you honestly have legitimate life experience of those men to accurately make that claim? Have you been exposed to enough of their personality and their psyche at work to truly say they're "cocky, stuck up, or a player, etc?" Or are you just placing, possibly even misplacing, judgment onto them because you want what they have? I don't think it's fair for you to dictate what it is that makes someone a good guy nor is it fair for you to attach a negative image to someone you most likely do not even know. Everyone has bad in them.1
I've been called attractive on occasion and I'm mostly attracted to insecure guys and/or nerds. I also know one really pretty girl who has a real Prince Charming kinda boyfriend ^^ He's so sweet, every girl she knows is jealous of her. He's so into her, you could never even suspect that he could ever fall for any other girl.0
Almost everyone is dating the wrong person or making mistakes when they're young. Even nice people make errors in judgement or struggle with insecurity, jealousy, emotional baggage... I know plenty of good people who have been bad partners at one time or another.
You're just tuned in to the experience of the hot girls because you desire them.0
What Guys Said 2
What you are calling cocky, stuck up, and players can also be described as handsome, successful, and confident. It's all in your perception.2
Confidence. Nobody likes a jerk, but someone without confidence might be worse.0
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