I get dirty looks from girls, online rejection. . It feels like they don't see me as a man and I'm beyond depressed about it
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If you're just "approaching" online...
I've heard that women who are considered "average" in looks get a LOT of emails from guys; many women get so many that it can be tough to sift through. Now, if you're going for above average women (as far as just looks goes), you're trying to compete against MORE men, many who are a bit "pervy."
So if they don't answer, it's not on you. If they don't talk to you at all, it's not you. If they talk to you, and get to know you and THEN say no, then you could argue that it's that they are rejecting you.
Sometimes online dating can be good. Sometimes it can kill a guy's confidence faster than a real life interaction (and "rejection").
Not knowing you at all (I don't think I do, anyway), I can't give you much in the way of specific advice. However, the first bit of advice 1) Be interesting and fun in real life. Don't focus on just the women. This will help with confidence, and if not, you're still doing cool stuff that can make you forget about women (or not make them a huge focus) 2) Talk to women in real life as well as online.
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