So this guy I have been seeing for four months now. I asked him a couple times
" What do you like about me?"
" What makes you wanna be with me?"
" Why are you with me?"
And he said " Well I don't know, I've never thought about it, I've never had to think about it with women. I thought both persons just like each other and decide to be with each other"
He couldn't answer my questions. It baffled me that he doesn't know the answers or thought about this.
Do all guys not think about this stuff?
Like I feel like to be in a relationship with someone you must know these things.
When he didn't know it made me feel foolish and dumb cause then that means he';s with me based on attraction =(.
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I'd say that four months into dating, a man should have a pretty good idea on how to answer these types of questions. I know I would. I mean, how do you see someone for four MONTHS and not have a clue on how to answer something like this?
Did you ask these questions of him because he's not very good at communicating this stuff to you on his own? I'm guessing that's the case here, and I don't really blame you.2
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