He is my first serious boyfriend and we have been together for over 3 years, so I really care about his feelings and I don't want to hurt him, but for the past five or so months, things have been different between us, at least on my end.
I feel as if I am almost falling out of love with him? Or maybe just thinking that we would be better friends? I'm not entirely sure why it is, but I am feeling as if I don't really see us getting married in the future and I don't see the point in wasting his time and mine if I don't see that future there.
Recently it has been difficult for me to get turned on by him, sexually. It also seems sometimes that hanging out is more of a chore than it should be, and that is unfair to him. There are things about him that I have noticed that are really bothering me, that I guess I never really noticed before, and his opinions on some topics are so polar opposite to mine that it is very difficult to have some conversations without having a mini argument over who is right.
So I guess what I am wondering is if I should just bite the bullet and break up with him, or if I should stick it out and see if things change? If I should break up with him, what would be the best way to? I don't have experience here and I don't know how to approach this situation.
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Just tell him how you feel and noticed a bit of change in your relationship. Ask him if he feels the same way and if he is okay with just taking a break and becoming friends, to see how things go.0