I'm together with my first girlfriend ever for four months now so even though I'm 23 I'm not really used to the etiquette in dating.
I'm not poor and I try to be good with my money and I also have taken jobs beside school but our frequent date nights and gifts for her have been kind of draining my savings.
I don't want to be cheap but it's kinda getting hard for me to pay for us, do you think I could ask her to get her half sometimes. How would I do that?
I'm a bit scared :) because she's been telling girls about how much she likes being spoiled by me. My problem is though to be able to afford this I would have to take another job and consequently would have no time for her.
Thanks for helping out!!
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Hahaha Of course it is okay to ask her this! Don't ask, one day just say -"Hey, hun, could you pay for this?" pointing to the two coffees or something...
It should become normal for you two to sometimes pay - sometimes you should pay, sometimes she should... It's not fair that it should always be you!1