Me: I feel like sh*t
Him: Why what's wrong?
Me: well me my friends hanging out ended awkwardly
Him: oh how?
Me: well when at the end of night when he was dropping me off I leaned into hug him and give him a kiss on the cheek and was disappointed cause it was not an actually kiss
Him: Word, that sucks
Me: yeah it does cause I absolutely hate hurting people
Me: So yeah do you still want to hang out tonight or no?
Him: I don't know
Him: I'm not sure
Me: well just let me know
Me: When do you want your sweatshirt back?
Him: Yeah. I'am down for hanging out with you. I'm not shunning you.
Me: Well it sort of seems like you are no offense, and I'm ok with it I respect you wishes. you don't have to hang with me
Him: Well you said it was only just a kiss and we aren't going out so if you want to get movies and hang out we can do that.
Me: who said anything about us going out or me even thinking of it rather? And we did way more than kiss btw.
Him: Yeah. I want to hangout with you
Me: um alright...you don't have to hangout with me if you don't want to.
Him: I do don't worry just go back to bed.
Me: I don't want to force you to hang out with you.
Him: Don't worry, you can't force me to do anything. Just go back to bed and I'll talk to you afterwork.
yeah confusing right...what message do you think he is trying to convey threw the messages? and should I go or no?
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He will hurt you, turn and walk away unless your looking for "fun relationships" ;; This guy will most likely not give a crap every time you have your feelings hurt, he didn't even acknowledge them -- "word, that sucks" isn't a great way to respond... Someone that didn't want to help you with what you did but at the same time show some effort would've said something like "Ouch, lol... so what are you gonna do now" -- Involving him/her into the conversation and bringing out you, so they can get to know your "deep side" and test it for dating potential.
This guy may be that uber badass, but as you can tell he is only into you for having a hip buddy that will be his pet. My advice, get a man - you have the looks for it; and you can still have fun in a relationship, touche to what the media says.
God, its been a while since I've been here lol.
Anyways, best regards, if I can help further let me know!
P.s. "Cant touch this" <-- deserves the best answer reward just for that..! what d'ya think? =)1