I'm a 30 year old male who has a stable career in healthcare and met a 28 year old woman on a blind date. We were set up by friends and texted and talked for about a week and a half before we decided to meet up. We meet up one afternoon for drinks. We chat and talk for nearly 4 hours. There was never a dead spot in our conversation, just a good time and lots of laughs. The date ends we hug and part ways. I don't hear from her afterwards so I text her about a day and a half later (standard protocol) to say I had a great time meeting here and that we should do it again sometime. She doesn't respond. Two days go by so I text her again just to say I haven't heard from you in a bit, I guess you're not interested. Good luck with everything. She finally responds with "Thanks. I enjoyed the date, but didn't feel a connection. Good luck to you as well. Take care..." Now I'm not mad or upset that there was no connection, but who sits and talks to a person for 4 hours and says there was no connection? Was this a passive burglary (robbed of time and paid for all the drinks)?
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Yup you see it on things like Millionaire Matchmaker all the time and those people spend like the whole day trying to wooh a person. You don't have chemistry like that you don't have chemistry like that. People aren't always open about it so they don't hurt feelings. I think that was rude of her not to right out respond that she felt nothing and just ignore you until you mention something. That wasn't cool and not very mature.0