Average looking guys can you please tell me your secret to getting gfs
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Okay, I read the other comments and saw that you have never approached. I get it, it's terrifying. So I'm going to recommend you put yourself through some aversion therapy.
Start by striking up conversations with women you have no interest in whatsoever. It doesn't have to be an in depth conversation. It can be a passing comment or a question about your surroundings. ("Can you believe they only have one check out lane open?" "Excuse me, do you know what time this store closes?" Commenting/asking about what is written on a tshirt or hoodie is another easy way.)
By starting with unattractive women you have no actual interest in, you aren't hoping it'll go anywhere. And, frankly, since you're just making passing comments, it isn't *supposed* to. All this will do is show you that women don't run away screaming when you initiate contact with them.
From there, move on to making passive comments/questions to women you DO find attractive. Again, it's *not* going to go anywhere because by design there's only going to be 1 or 2 things said back and forth to each other. Don't hang around to see if it goes anywhere. Get in, get out.
Then start flirting a little bit with women you find attractive. But again, leave before it can go anywhere. By knowing that you're just going to get in, drop your line or a little flirting, and then *you* are going to leave, you won't fear rejection because you'll be walking away before they get the chance to reject you.
Through all of this, your confidence will be building higher and you'll be gaining insight into women and how they react to different types of interactions. Then taking the leap into an actual approach won't be so terrifying and won't be completely unchartered territory.0