This girl and I only met once and she cancelled our first date and didn't try to reschedule but I was cool about it and after a few weeks we started texting and she's really interested now. So I want to ask her out to go bowling/laser tag next weekend. How many days in advance do people plan out first dates? And is bowling/laser tag a good idea or would mini golf be better? Also should I ask her if she wants me to pick her up? We live about 40 min from each other and she said no last time.
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Out of curiosity, how far in advance did she cancel the first date?
I'd say probably make plans around a week before, especially if it's a weekend plan. But that all just depends on your schedules. I've made dates that were for the next day and some that were for 2 weeks out because of busy schedules.
And she may have picked up interest now because of a less hectic schedule or maybe things didn't work out with someone else she went on a date with.
I think any of your date ideas sound like good ones! And to be a gentleman, you can offer to pick her up, but since you don't really know each other she probably feels safer being able to take her own vehicle to meet you.1
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