Women my age (23) don't seem interested in me, a lot of it seems to be my fault since I don't like to party a lot. I like to go out with friends and hang out but I won't just randomly get drunk at clubs every weekend.
Also I work out / go running / have basketball practice all in all everyday, this takes up a lot of my time.
Additionally I have to study, work and practice playing the piano.
I really like music, cooking, doing handy work at home, movies.
I want to meet a nice girl but I'm just not meeting women who seem interested plus I'm also afraid if she would date me she would be bored pretty quickly.
Do you maybe have tips on how to pick up certain habits / h obbies that girls like in men?
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You don't change for the girl. You just find one who is not an alcoholic getting drunk on the weekends because doing that stuff is nothing but trouble. Those are the girls who get hit with DWI's, kill someone driving, and repeatedly suck off random guys. You don't want to date those girls. They're nothing but trouble.
This is one of the biggest issues with dating. These girls are dating guys trying to "change them" when they need to find guys who are already what they're looking for.
There are plenty of girls out there who fit your criteria. I will say in the US, good luck finding people who exercise but the gym would be a good bet since you said you workout. These girls tend to be more health conscious and capable of more physical activities. Drunk girls just sit around bored hungover the day after their party fest and you will be the one bored of them. You're the busy one doing stuff, it's just that the girls who party all the time can't keep up because they're too busy pretending to have so much going on when all they're doing is fucking up their livers and flailing their arms around like idiots.0