I just met this guy a week ago, and slept with him last night. I feel terrible! First of all, this guy is nice, really chill guy.. I can tell he's really into me. But I'm not attracted to him. I can't ever see myself with him. I just gave him a chance, because he's just really nice. So..we drank and smoked last night and I just went for it. We had sex. Maybe it's because I haven't hooked up in awhile (I hate hook-ups anyway).
But now he's texting me a lot more often and, not trying to sound like an uncaring person, I don't want to see him anymore. I feel like I used him :/
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I don't think you used him. Is was just a hook up and you are allowed to not want another one with this guy. Just tell him that even though that night was great, you really just want to stay friends without benefits (if that's what you want to do). Or tell him you need to stop seeing him if that's what need to do.
Just do what works for you. Its better than stringing him along.0