I knew this guy 10 years ago in school. We've maybe talked twice since. Just recently I've been noticing more of him on my FB feed and im developing a little crush on him. How do I initiate contact? Do I message him? What should I say? I don't want to come off as a creeper since it's been so long since we've talked.
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Just message him. What have you got to lose? You can't really go wrong unless he isn't interested in talking to you. If he attempts to keep the conversation flowing, then he's either a nice guy or may be interested. If he doesn't, then you are probably wasting your time and energy on him. Just remember, there is no way to make a guy like you, you either have something they want in a girl, or you don't. And changing who you are is not the right option either because then, the guys you end up attracting won't be into the real you will they now?
My point of my rant is, don't be so worried about something as silly as sending a message. Just do it, he will either be interested in talking or won't be. You will know soon enough.0