I've asked GaG friends here the other day, whether guys pay everything when they are dating. and most of answers, almost 99% answers were "yes". and they quote, "If I ask her out I have to pay everything"
But I'd like to ask here, if I ask you out, and try to treat you dinner and movie, would you feel uncomfortable, or rude, or weired or even offended? Is it really rare, a girl asking a guy out? I'd like to hear others opinion~ :D thanks
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Well, being one of the older people here...
when I was a teenager, which was the last time I dated until 3 weeks ago, I would never consider having a woman pay for a date.
However, times change. Situations change. I am just out of a divorce where my wife used my love for her to take everything. I just don't have the money to pay for everything if we need to go out a lot. Luckily, being older (45) many of the women my age are very happy just watching a movie at home or going to the park.
but one of my dates that I did go on was to a movie. She asked me and she said she was paying. That was the first time a woman ever paid on a date with me. I was fine with it. IT was actually kind of nice. Knowing she thought I was worth spending some money on just to spend time with me.
I think you should go for it. I know I as fine with it.0