I'm an 18 year old girl (i know my profile says under 18, it's a mistake lol) who wears a headscarf and dresses modestly in Western clothes at college. lately i've been getting approached by black guys, who know I'm Muslim since they usually greet me with the Muslim greeting that they somehow know. then they ask for my #. At first, I used to say no sorry I don't date bc it's against my religion. They don't take no for an answer so I tell them no firmly and walk away and get called a b**** several times. I swear Im not even trying to be mean, im not a mean person. I don't even get why they are asking me out since I wear the headscarf? I'm confused i don't know what to do.
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I get the appeal, some middle eastern & arab girls stand out so much. They dress different, conservative mostly. They even act a little different, I mean theyre more modest. Its a completely different feel to other girls. Not all are muslim but a lot are, despite this people may try seek relationships whether it be futile or not. when you it weigh up its worth the risk, muslim girls are gems in western societies at this point. The guys over reacting though, thats a self esteem thing, dont worry about it. by the way headscarfs are never off-putting or whatever, they're the best.4
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