Simple story, boy met girl, exchanged "I like you's" and had a few text messages here and there.. mainly trying to figure out schedules. Mine is hectic because I have kids. and if we were to date of course I would want to separate the two worlds for a while and I also work when I dont have kids. It's hard for me to come up with time, but I am willing to make the time to get to know someone. All that aside, I have been thinking of texting him. its been well, almost a week since we last texted and two weeks since we met. I dont know exactly what to say when I text him, but I kinda wanna know if he's still interested in dating, or if I should just let him go. Not to mention, I realize it will take a while for someone to decide if they want to seriously date a woman with children. So that's why I've been stand offish. haha Any insight? thanks!
Thinking of giving him a ring. Thoughts?
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An easy thing to text would be, "Hi stranger, how you been, not heard from you in a while, so thought I would say hi, x" This will allow the convo to be open without pressure if he has any reason of not contacting you, and don't be thinking that just because you have kids, it means your un dateable, because this is so false, because although you might come with baggage, a lot of genuine guys would never judge you for having kids. Were not animals where we kill the off spring of another mans lol, we often would be happy to date someone with kids, and we would accept that you come as a package, and guys who can't handle this type of baggage, are not worth your time anyway, good luck, x0
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