I feel stuck. I do like this guy but he seems like he is hiding something because things are starting to not make sense. We have been dating for 4 months. He said it is exclusive. Basically I am made to act like I am in a relationship but I am technically not in one. So i basically pretty much strongly hinting I want to make it official because why not..It has been 4 months and I am sick of "dating" I want the title If I am to act like I am in one..if he is not prepared to make me his gf how can he expect to control me so much. I can't date anyone else and yet I feel he doesn't really want me..Never met his friends etc. I feel we need to take a step foward it is not enough anymore and I feel he keeps amking up excuses to keep us going nowhere and yet claims he wants me its just not ready. I dont knwo what to do I feel stuck and I feel he is maybe keeping me on a string until he finds better..how do i know if he is doing this. what do i do?
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First thing you need to do is to figure out what you want in the relationship. There's no need to feel that you are stuck when you can make the decision yourself. What do I mean? If you're eager to have the title of being his girlfriend then you need to approach him and tell him this. If your guy is still beating around the brushes, then you need to give him in ultimatum. Let him know that life is too short to be playing these mind games. If he wants to be with you then he's going to be with you. If he's not, then move on. Women in our society always feel the need to wait on the guy to make the first move. If you want something, go get it instead of waiting for it to come to you.0