To avoid my shyness around women should I just talk to them like they're one of my buds so I'm not so shaky and nervous? I'm completely terrified of women..
Talk to women like guys to avoid nervousness around them?
What Girls Said 3
women are humans but are looks/how we dress can be nervous around a guy and make them think we are too good for them sometimes but it perfect normal to be shaky n nervous but you get break that off and be more social and hang around girls we not going BITE!! i was once like you be now loud and silly0
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What Guys Said 5
A trick I used is this and I hope it helps. When I was in college I used to be uncomfortable around women and at one point I became physically sick due to fear of everything imaginable (rejection, public humiliation, etc.). What I did when I graduated was not to care about them. Let me explain, when you see a woman you like you automatically think damn she's hot and that builds up tension and bam your nerves are gone. What I do is this I just educated myself about females, not out of hatred just for my own well being. I diesect that crap they wear on their face so they can go into the world, the effort they make to show enough but not too much, and once you take out the need to put your penis inside her volva to go up in her vagina you tend to calm down and see them as a regualr ass person.
So overall just focus on becoming a better version of yourself by working out or doing something you enjoy. Don't put a woman above yourself unless this is a woman that will do the same for you. And I see your age and I'm younger but I really hope I helped. Good luck sir.1
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Rejection is completely normal as being a guy. All guys have gone through this, its something that you need to get over by keep on moving forward with conversation with women. How so? You have the right idea, but you should talk to women like you are good friends. I used to be so nervous around women and scared that I learned by doing and failing and eventually got over rejection. Now even when I get rejected I don't care because I know that I am good guy. You have to learn this now that you are good enough as is and go can have whatever you put your mind to.0
Just as long as you don't say "hey, 'sup"0
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