I don't drink so I rarely go to the bar,
but the other day was my friend's birthday so we were hanging out at the bar
this good looking guy kept sending shots to our table, I thought the shots meant for the birthday girl and he finally approched me and say "hi"
and my mind was like "why? why me? are you sure?" "do you have a hidden agenda or something?" I had no idea what to say to him, I was froze there T_T
I know I have an insecurity, low self esteem, inexperience issues etc etc
But I wanted to know whether there are GaG friends who felt exactly like me LOL haha
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If you look anything like your current picture and earlier picture, then you're pretty enough to have this happen to you.
Men go through this kind of thing too. There have been times I turned around to see if they were talking to some other guy behind me.
I never feel offended that anyone looks good. I try very hard to show the same kindnesses to those who look bad. It is my belief that we cannot choose our looks, we simply grow into the bodies that we have without ever getting to pick that we have big feet or little feet or whatever. Every person, every soul, is in a body that they just grew into and couldn't choose.
How can I think anything about that which is outside someone's control?2